I feel so out of place in every gay circle and I’m not sure why that is. Is it because I’m a somewhat masculine dude? Is it because I’ve never had sex before? Is because I’m a bit sheltered? I just like boys. Help me out here.
How do I fit in?
I feel the same way. The only queer friends I have are older so I’m already a bit othered, but being a straight-passing virgin isn’t helping
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Anonymous3w
Also being a POC makes this even more prominent for me
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Anonymous3w
I have flat effect, I'm colored, and introverted, for this reason, I don't enjoy being in "queer" spaces
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Anonymous3w
dedicated queer spaces tend to have a particular vibe, yeah. friends who happen to be in a similar situation are amazing but not really the easiest thing to find
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Anonymous#13w
Dude I just started trying to make irl queer friends a few days ago. Literally all of mine throughout high school were online.
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AnonymousOP3w
Yeah all of mine are out of town bc the hometown bible-belt college doesn’t leave room for open-minded friendships lmfao