for added context: we’ve been friends for about 2 years now and he knew that i liked him when we first began friends last summer, (but told me it wasn’t reciprocated). our friendship only got stronger as we moved in together and he’s been my right hand man through it all. we never flirted / intimate, yet the bond we formed was platonic best friends. i feel odd about the timing of hard launch because i used to sometimes give him shit about the situationship as he would be very sneaky bout it

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added context 2: this isn’t the first time weird timing has happened. we went on a cruise during a spring break trip where we got drunk and the topic of the girl in the situationship was mentioned to which i gave him advice. immediately after the cruise, they saw each other and then unfollowed each other (on 2 separate accounts)— spending an entire week without seeing her. eventually they reconciled and followed each other back, but the timing never sat right with me.

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i think it just makes you his best friend and that his relationship is either entirely unrelated, or the fact that you “used to sometimes give him shit” abt it just made him not comfortable to make anything official and/or public while you were still living together since you see people so much more often when you share a house

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