They took it ok. I actually told them about my name change first and they took that pretty well. I THOUGHT I had told them I’m non-binary, but apparently I didn’t or they didn’t remember that, so I re-came out a month or so later. It went alright, they were confused but ultimately supportive. They haven’t been great about my name, and really have been terrible about my pronouns, but I see the baby steps happening (and there’s so much going on in my family right now, we’ve got other priorities).