I WANT the cis people I’m involved w to like trans people!! I WANT them to be attracted to trans bodies and find them hot!! Everyone has attraction to cis people, it came free with your fucking universal societal default!! Being attracted to trans people is (sadly, currently) unusual and kind of taboo, which means I’m by default excluded from most people’s attraction. I NEED my person to be into trans bodies or else they won’t be into MY body. Find trans people hot, please!!
Ah I think you’re from the hanky code post, right? The only reason that wording was suspicious is because cis4trans is more often than not used as a chaser dogwhistle. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a cis person being attracted to a trans person, cis4trans just overwhelmingly implies that the cis person is only attracted to trans people
ya, there’s a big difference between ONLY being attracted trans people and ALSO being attracted to trans people. i’m trans and constantly see any cis people mentioning they’re attracted to trans people being called a chaser. it just scares away the normal ones and leaves the actual chasers to run wild