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Ok please forgive my ignorant cis ass but doesn’t every trans person have dysphoria by definition? If you want people to use they/them pronouns and dislike other ones is that not dysphoria
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Anonymous 7w

I understand where you’re coming from, but I’d say that’s more a gender incongruence vs gender dysphoria. Gender incongruence is feeling as if you are a diffrent gender than the one assigned to you at birth, where dysphoria is a clinically significant distress caused by that incongruencr

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Anonymous 7w

That would be gender dysphoria, yes. But not all people experience it. Some trans people use all pronouns, so they wouldn’t get dysphoria from someone using their ‘original’ pronouns. I am a trans man and prefer to live life as a man, but I don’t have dysphoria about my body. I think it’s fine the way it is. I don’t have dysphoria over my body or my past experiences as a woman.

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Anonymous 7w

No. being trans is just about not identifying with the gender you were assigned at birth can be for any reason

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Anonymous 7w

Like I keep hearing discussion about whether or not someone needs gender dysphoria to be trans but I thought the whole squad was rocking that

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Anonymous 6w

OP - ignore #1. Dysphoria is NOT required. It’s common but not every trans person experiences it. Gender is a spectrum! Just like sexuality. No one will be exactly the same. As a trans man, I, personally, only have strong pronoun and top dysphoria, barely any bottom dysphoria. That does make me any less trans than those who do. Don’t be ashamed to ask questions! Questions are the first step to understanding

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Anonymous 7w

thats the logical thinking, but unfortunately that’s not what’s mainstream any more

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

It’s kinda like when you change the paint in your bedroom. You don’t hate the old color, it’s just not for you anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

nah gender euphoria also exists

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

glad everyone booed the transmed

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

keep booing me, it proves my point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i mean if by logical you mean “ignoring the breadth of experiences trans people encounter” then sure!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

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