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LGBTQIA+ 1d
idk if it makes any sense or not, but as uncomfortable as i am in dresses, and despite not identifying as a girl anymore, everytime i picture myself getting married i still imaging a big fluffy dress and perfect makeup and idk what that says abt me
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Anonymous 1d

i think it means you are not a girl but you still enjoy femininity. im a trans guy and once i pass more ill be dressing more girly, it’s because i feel more comfortable with femininity when people see me as male.

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Anonymous 1d

when lesbians get married, they're often in two dresses, a dress and suit, or two suits. why should you as a man not be able to wear a dress? there are no rules and you should do what makes you happy.

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Anonymous 1d

like maybe i’m not rlly trans if i still want such a traditionally feminine role in something like a wedding, that already relies so heavily on gender stereotypes

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Anonymous 1d

do you feel happy when you imagine yourself that way? it might just be force of habit (it’s also ok if you do…doesn’t take away from your identity)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

personally i think more men should wear feminine clothes, cis or trans

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ig it’s just hard to balance wanting to be more feminine in certain areas with not feeling like it takes away from my gender somehow. i think i just have a really complicated experience with my gender identity tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

it’s what i’d want for that event, yeah. i can’t imagine wearing a suit or not wearing nice makeup or something to my own wedding and still enjoying it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and it's totally okay to feel that way!! i think it's just important for you to point out to yourself that femininity doesn't equal womanhood and it's completely okay for people, including yourself, to express and pursue femininity without it defining themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

understandable!

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