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Being gay doesn’t automatically mean you aren’t misogynistic and I fear some gay people don’t want to acknowledge it
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Anonymous 2w

literally it’s for this reason that it irks me when gay men call women bitches

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Anonymous 2w

it’s the same thing with being homophobic. just because you’re a part of the community doesn’t make it okay for you to shit on other queer people!! we are in this together wtf are you doing!!

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Anonymous 2w

Idk if it’s misogynistic or not but as a bi man I’m very wary of women because the majority of biphobia I’ve experienced has always come from straight women. So I lowkey avoid them sometimes

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Anonymous 2w

That as well as gate keeping the queer community. Biphobia and acephobia

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Anonymous 2w

I fear that is almost exclusively an issue amongst cis gay men.

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Anonymous 2w

I fear the population of gay people who are misogynistic is a very small percent of the whole. I fear (as a gay guy), gay people can just be rude when they’re in a bad mood. 😬🥱

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Anonymous 2w

lukewarm take

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Anonymous 2w

yer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I don’t really agree with you, I think if a woman is okay with a gay man calling her a bitch jokingly, it’s fine, but I fully respect your opinion and see where you are coming from

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeahhhh that’s fair we can tend to be a bit rude sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

agree with this take. i think context is important

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh fs, if they’re both cool w it then yea! More like if a gay man calls a woman a bitch just to call her one is when it’s an issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I’m not invalidating your experience, and I don’t personally think it’s misogynistic as a woman myself, but I think biphobia is on the rise too bc I’ve experienced from many genders. I also think it’s a current administration problem too because my mom who has not gave af about me being bi for years has all of a sudden became really homophobic. So like it’s definitely rough out there. I wish you luck tho!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Oh nah that’s bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

CLOCK THAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I've noticed with bisexuals there's a weird narrative where bi men are "actually gay" and bi women are "actually straight". It's very odd and disturbing to see that a lot of people assume that if you're attracted to men, you can ONLY be attracted to men. That's may be where some of the negative experiences with women come from

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

i never understood this bc as a bi woman i thought dating a bi man was the dream when dating a guy and then i found out a lot of women thinks it’s gross or whatever and ive been so confused ever since?? i think it’s fun to point out hot people in movies to each other and for them to understand bisexuality and not just fetishize it like some straight men idk 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

i basically think of it the same way, coming from a bi man, but idk i guess everyone’s a supervillain nowadays

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