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LGBTQIA+ 9w
Dating an asexual person I’m constantly scared that I’m somehow making them do something they’re not interested in. I consciously know they want to and that I haven’t even mentioned anything like that without being prompted, but still just scared, yk?
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Anonymous 9w

That’s a valid concern!! As an asexual person, sometimes I worry that my partner may feel forced since they’re aware that I don’t function on the same level as they do (for lack of a better term). I would definitely express this with your partner to ensure you’re heard and so that anything can be cleared up! Communication is always key to any type of relationship, I wish you the best of luck!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Thanks! And no worries, they’re very aware. They’ve told me multiple times that I don’t pressure them (and that I couldn’t successfully pressure them even if I wanted to lol) but it’s always just one of those unsubstantiated fears, you know?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

They’ve started making an effort to use definitive phrasing “*I* want” and such, helps to make sure they’re not just capitulating to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Of course!! Those fears are very valid, and I’m glad that things are being worked on to help your relationship!! :D

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