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idk if its a trans thing, sexual trauma thing, or if im on the ace spectrum but does anyone else feel such a sharp disconnect between the person they are during sex vs not that once you cum you're like totally out of the mood and want to escape your body
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Anonymous 1d

only when im in the submissive role tho, i can top and feel great about it but after bottoming i always feel like sort of hollow and gross, even though i like to bottom. i feel like i'm increasingly uncomfortable with the idea of not being in control even though it feels good sexually it feels bad like mentally idk

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Anonymous 1d

i haven’t quite figured this out, but i definitely relate to this. lots of either numbness or pain during the act ://

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Anonymous 1d

Sounds like post-nut depression

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

sub drop is a very real thing you might wanna look into; aftercare can usually help but ! depends on the person:3

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