that shouldnt even be a thought, let alone spoken out loud or posted. being โfatโ isnโt a bad thing, itโs subjective just like beauty. iโd rather be single for the rest of my life than be with someone who would judge me based on my looks or body, and i hope so would everyone else
bae be so fr. i donโt need validation from someone else (unlike you), i have confidence and know my worth so i donโt have to seek validation and approval of people who only like and use you for your looks or body. if anything you should snap back to reality and realize that the way youโre acting is childish and sad, itโs screaming โPICK ME!! CHOOSE ME!! I DONT HAVE ANY CONFIDENCE AND NEED TO GET EXTERNAL VALIDATION TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE!! IM SKINNY PLEASE LOVE ME!!โ.
Itโs not about that, itโs like Iโve lost over 80 lbs now Iโm like I guess in a healthy weight. Being fat doesnโt make anyone love themselves. Donโt you think dating someone overweight and unhealthy is a turn off. It lacks discipline and tbh itโs just unattractive to me. Iโm just saying the gay community is really harsh if you want to get people youโre actually attracted to maybe one should lose weight and then maybe their potential suitors may be more appealing
ok YOU lost it because YOU wanted to. this kind of behavior is why edโs are so normalized today. you said โoverweight and unhealthyโ, thatโs not the same as saying fat. fat is a subjective term just like beauty. its like how i find you ugly because of the way youโre acting but you think that youโre attractive because youโre โskinnyโ. not everyone is the same and trying to fit everyone into your standards just makes people less special and unique. also i say bae.
also blaming your behavior on โthe gay communityโ is not ok because you donโt speak for all of us and you only know an ounce of the people in this community. if anything โthe gay communityโ should be supporting everyone embracing their true selfโs instead of forcing them into societyโs expectations.