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“You can’t treat people like crap for their gender” Instant downvotes Curious how my comment about how I’m a trans guy was upvoted though, guess that makes me only male adjacent and therefore not hateable enough
Hot take: People are too comfortable taking out their justifiable frustrations with the patriarchy out on *individuals* who didn’t put that system in place and who also suffer from it
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Anonymous 1d

I’ve noticed a trend of trans men sharing experiences similar to this one and being hated on for it until they mention being trans, it’s unfortunate

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Anonymous 13h

I think the nuance you’re missing is that trans people and women are both marginalized gender groups under the patriarchy. It’s not that you’re “only male-adjacent” (anyone who’d say that is a transphobe, and also wrong) it’s that it’s obviously unreasonable to treat you as oppressor. Cis men, too, suffer from the patriarchy in some ways, but they benefit from it in so many, and they need to actually make an effort to resist it. Men socialized in misogyny who don’t care to change it, uphold it.

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