urmomzrosetoy on Yik Yak | Someone sos I’m in a wlw relationship and I went thru my girlfriends tiktok favorites and she has MANY videos of shirtless guys flexing and stuff. The comments that she liked got worse. I really need help what do I do.

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urmomzrosetoy

Someone sos I’m in a wlw relationship and I went thru my girlfriends tiktok favorites and she has MANY videos of shirtless guys flexing and stuff. The comments that she liked got worse. I really need help what do I do.

Anonymous 17h

i think the underlying trust issue that caused you to go thru her tiktok favorites is probably the bigger problem

Anonymous 18h

You need to have a conversation one asking her what it’s about and then two setting boundaries around like and saving stuff like that and be firm about it

Anonymous 19h

maybe she’s bi?

Anonymous

#1 18h

Yeah but it’s still kinda weird to save that stuff in a relationship

Anonymous

#2 9h

it’s not that weird dawg

Anonymous

#4 8h

Why isn’t it weird? Like I’m curious why you think that like actually

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Anonymous

#2 38m

some people just have different boundaries, like someone may be a monogamous relationship but don't feel any sort of way about their partner watching porn or liking thirst traps. not everyone's the same, it just depends on personal boundaries.