yall, i don't think op's post is aimed at people who are content with their labels. personally, i think that if labels help you, great! that's awesome! i think that's good. but if they don't, i think op is right. you don't *need* any overly-specific label to be queer. if it helps, then more power to you! but also- you can just be queer, which ik is a label, but not one that's so specific. you don't need to classify yourself so tediously in order to be a member of the lgbtq+ and happy :}