Anonymous #1 4w

It’s totally fine to enjoy being submissive, but forcing other women into that role for your own dynamic isn’t fair. Personally, I’m really tired of always being pushed into “the boy” role. I’m sapphic, and I hate feeling like I have to give up my femininity just to make other femmes happy. Im dating girls because i want us BOTH to be girls, and it has to be even yk?

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Anonymous OP 4w

Nobody is forcing anyone to do that 😭 is it also forcing women into men’s roles for femmes to only be interested in butches or studs? You’re allowed to reject people you’re not interested in btw ! And girls can be masculine if they want! They are still girls

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Anonymous #1 4w

I dont think you understood any of what was said—

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Anonymous OP 4w

I don’t think you read anything I said

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Anonymous OP 4w

well no, the post that you made was complaining about bi women who “avoid women who don’t act like men”, no mention of anyone being forced into anything. people aren’t psychic, if you want your thoughts to be understood then you have to say what you mean

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Anonymous OP 4w

and when you say “I’m dating girls because I want us BOTH to be girls” in this context, that absolutely does suggest that you think someone can disqualify herself as a girl simply by taking on a traditionally masculine role / acting a certain way

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