Anonymous #1 6w

we are blessed to have textured hair, not the other way around. thanks for the sentiment though.

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Anonymous #3 6w

Lmao sorry I worded that poorly. We do have incredible hair 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous #1 6w

100% agreed.

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Anonymous mother_russia 6w

are you sure you’re not allergic to the products you’re using?

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Anonymous #4 6w

I mean allergic reactions are caused by allergies so yeah I’m allergic to it, but the thing I’m allergic to is just soap so it’s not really avoidable so I have to limit exposure. (Also I’m not the person who downvoted you)

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Anonymous mother_russia 6w

Yeppp this is the one 😭 im not willing to subject myself to rashes more often just so other ppl don’t think i look bad lmao

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Anonymous mother_russia 6w

crazee

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Anonymous #6 6w

TWINZIES! (I’m sorry for your loss)

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Anonymous #8 6w

i’ve tried that but it’s never worked well for me

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Anonymous #9 6w

aw man, maybe try a different brand! dry shampoo spray never worked for me but it did when i made my own. what’s your hair texture? maybe try a brand that specializes in your specific texture!

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Anonymous #8 6w

made my own powder* sorry i was typing too fast lol

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Anonymous #1 6w

Bro who tf wants fine hair? I have fine hair and it’s so flat and gets tangled all the time

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Anonymous #12 6w

Dry shampoo doesn’t work for me. My hair gets unbelievably itchy and then it bleeds and has scabs and it doesn’t look good just flat. I have to wash mine once a day. And why would I wear hats when I could just wash it? Maybe it works for you lol glad it does!

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Anonymous #12 6w

Fine hair is revered in some cultures whereas curly or thick is deemed primitive. Took me 18 years to embrace my natural hair after wishing I had the fine straight white girl hair my culture thinks is the peak of beauty

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Anonymous #12 6w

nobody with fine hair suffers from racist microaggressions about their hair. it’s not about tangles.. y’all can be so shallow.

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Anonymous #1 6w

This.

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Anonymous mother_russia 6w

Hi Russia

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Anonymous #9 6w

hey i’m also audhd and i shower. just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it’s impossible bro you gotta keep up w hygiene

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Anonymous og_beer 6w

Beer! ❤️

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Anonymous #15 6w

they said they’re doing the best they can idk how this is meant to be helpful

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Anonymous #16 6w

It’s not. It’s a form of internal ableism based off a mindset of “if I don’t struggle with it others who do must just be lazy or not trying hard enough, like I am”

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Anonymous og_beer 6w

Yeah, man thank you - that’s exactly the kind of word I was looking for: internalized ableism. Even folks that are diagnosed with the same thing can vary a whole lot in which specific things affect them or are difficult for them. This almost comes across as sort of a ‘pick-me’ thing, but in the ableism sphere? I can’t STAND that whole, ‘I’m not like those OTHER disabled folks, I can ___. They’re just lazy’. It always seems to be used like a bludgeon.

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Anonymous #17 6w

same.

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Anonymous #17 6w

Exactly. Like wow, ok, you don’t struggle with something despite it being a well documented symptom of your diagnosis. Ok? Want a sticker? Or a cookie? What benefit are you offering to those who do struggle by sharing that you dont?

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Anonymous #2 6w

It seems like you have some kind of scalp condition so this wouldn’t apply to you. But for most people it’s good to let your scalp get slightly greasy and then brush those oils throughout your ends. It’s not going to be cute which is why I recommend a hat, but will hydrate your hair so it doesn’t dry out and start breaking off. Also water itself can damage your hair so you’re better off trying to go as long as you can between washes. Not to mention saves water and $$ on hair products.

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Anonymous #12 6w

Honestly I might lol but no one has ever mentioned it when I’ve talked about it to my hair stylists. I think some people just have naturally greasy hair/oily scalps same with skin. And sadly my job doesn’t let me wear hats, best I could do is a pony tail but that’s also damaging

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