My relationship with my mom is genuinely so complicated because does she respect my identity as a lesbian AND respect my trans gfs identity? Yeah. But she stole 144k from me and made me live in squalor so you win some you lose some i guess
yeah when my dad died i got survivors benefits and she used them all to live so she didnt have to get a job and towards the end of my teenage years she refused to buy cat litter and we lived with cat shit everywhefe