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Im so sick of being fetishized as a trans man
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Anonymous 7w

Surprise men get fetishized as well we just don’t talk about it.

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Anonymous 7w

thought I was safe when I got in a t4t relationship, but he refused to use masculine terms for me & got visibly upset when I mentioned wanting top surgery 🫩

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Anonymous 7w

Same im not trans but I’ve seen a lot of this. Sometimes I think it’s like they’re version of supportive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

they definitely do. especially black men but no one ever talks about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Very true.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I just don’t think it ever gets traction.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

And I also think that most men don’t even recognize it as fetishism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

That’s because they’re not getting a attack if they did then it would be a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Why do you think women romances are dark romance books that’s the fetish of men is being treated like they matter and not like a object

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

If we are referencing books, women both sexualize and create unrealistic gendered expectations and critiques in men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Infamously so, women do sexually harass and assault men, it’s just kinda not given any attention to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

If you’re going to speak on anyone making unrealistic ginger expectations with men cause y’all really believe women was only meant to have children in to be sex stories. Women wanted to be treated like basic human beings and treated as equal, but since men have an ego and pride that makes them believe they’re better than everyone even women that literally die while giving birth

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Im saying this as an avid reader.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Well not me. But women make unrealistic gendered expectations. Expecting men to be sole financial providers; many women are actually extremely homophobic and biphobic; certain physical attributes such as height and endowment. I think that women have many of the same faults as men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Again, who sat the standards for that who told women to expect that who literally told women they’re too fragile to work they’re too fragile to do any hard labor, except for give birth, and take care of the household, cause that’s only with their worth

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Well women are human beings and women are treated like human beings. There is however documentation of same gender violence and opposite gender violence. As a gay man who works in a woman dominated space, I really think a lot of these behaviors are human unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

And who continued to do so even after they were freed?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Some women choose the cult of domesticity, some choose to modified form, others choose completely different lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

When did women have any kind of race or any kind of say on how society is supposed to be human particularly white men had control over United States and over the standards so what did y’all tell women men are supposed to be the providers in the protectors since we’re too fragile since we give birth children, we’re supposed to be in the house cooking and cleaning since that’s our only worse. Men are supposed to be the strong capable ones that’s supposed to go out and do all of the work

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Again the white men that had control of the United States and still got control of United States and still have control of society have told women men are the ones that are supposed to pay all the bills since y’all are the ones that go well at work while we stay home take care of the children and the household. Remember y’all told us we was too fragile too stupid too useless and our only job was to give birth because we’re women again. When did women have rights?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Not denying the history of this country, but I’m also not going to act as if the current contributions of women in this country haven’t radically changed us all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

And what time did women have right before 1900’s ? And again, who had control over society While women had to fight for their rights. It was men correct and that’s it. Why do you think you’ll go after teenagers and children and not actual adult women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Well sure, but it isn’t as if women don’t take advantage of some of these things. I personally don’t consider child rearing maintaining your home is a job because it’s 100% self paced

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Yeah, we took advantage of it and you meant hate it that it stopped vanishing. Yo we used it against y’all and y’all hate it. We actually did what y’all wanted, but since a lot of human men cannot hold up the standards other men put out into this world y’all blame women, but I guess what I’m saying is going over your head

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

And I’m not a white man so Iiiii didn’t tell you anything. More did my father or grandfather and so on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

*nor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Again, you’re blaming women for standards. Men put up for other men that can’t follow if you cannot follow with other men put for standards as been altogether didn’t say that you cannot blame women for holding your accountable and telling y’all get well your providers and protectors do providers and protectors are supposed to do your bragged about being that you screamed at the top of your lungs. The men are providers and protectors. Women held y’all accountable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Oh no, the whole behavior is just human like and with humans told each other it was OK to act which humans are the biggest hypocrites species wise any other species that look at the human race will consider us the biggest manipulated the biggest hypocrites in the biggest doomed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Women will go after children. There are many documented cases of such incidents and a belief that there are others that go unreported

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Teachers hello? I know female and male teachers who hooked up with kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Well I never blamed women for anything👀 I simply said that men get fetishized too, we just don’t talk about it. You decided to make it about blaming women👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Like over-sexualizing someone is “better” 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Ugh Fuck him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’m not disagreeing that men do it more. I’m saying that women do it too and many don’t get caught.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/

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