Noooo but then what happens to my innate sense of goodness?? How will I reassure myself that I've never ever hurt anyone (unless they deserved it, then I’m punching up ☝️ hell yea) and will never ever hurt people? And how will I feel justified in my anger towards other people who have hurt me? What am I supposed to do, recognize the innate humanity of others and focus my life on being kind to everyone?? /s if it wasn't clear 😅