The assumption that I see all the time that men who are misogynistic must secretly be gay is absolutely homophobic. Sometimes straight men do really just hate women and don’t secretly want men instead
Same goes for abusers not being “real men” they are real men. It’s real men that cause real pain in their domestic lives.
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Anonymous17w
I HATE when the same thing is said about homophobic men also being secretly gay. Like no dude some people are just bigots for no reason other than them being terrible people.
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Anonymous17w
no we say that because we know it hurts them. the worst thing a toxic masculine bro can be called is a boy.
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Anonymouspurog17w
Like I know it’s not entirely the same but still.
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Anonymouspurog17w
YES I absolutely agree!! It once again just makes gay men the villains for no reason. Sometimes (a lot of the times) bad people are just that; bad people
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Anonymous17w
They are ADULTS who choose to be abusers as ADULTS with their own agency. They’re not children who can’t control their actions.
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AnonymousOP17w
Those men who claim to not like attractive women are also often essentially lying. They often DO find these women attractive and are angry about it because of their own misogyny and choose to blame the women for their own hatred.
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AnonymousOP17w
They consider these women beneath them and are angry they feel any sort of attraction towards people they see as beneath them.