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LGBTQIA+ 1d

paris confirming what lesbians have been saying forever about [SOME] bisexuals and this girl coming and explaining why it makes sense lesbians are a little hesitant because it hurts it feels so validating for ppl to finally realize this is what we mean

Anonymous 1d

The fact op dosent date mascs and studs because “if I wanted somebody masculine I would just date a guy”

Anonymous 23h

Paris does not speak for the bi community. She is a person who spews out the same misinformation that keeps biphobia and lesbophobia alive. If you or a loved one has said half the stuff she has said in this video, REEVALUATE please.

Anonymous 20h

Ive even seen a video of a cis man coming to their rescue, like yes lets use a man to come into the community he’s not a part of to repeat the same ignorant nonsense and pretend like his animosity towards lesbians is perfectly normal and not dangerous at all

Anonymous 20h

The comment section is actually so bad too, the sheer amount or her fans or other girls with this mindset is kinda insane, they’ve even leaked out into other videos about this insufferably trying to defend this, I hope people don’t treat this as a one off

Anonymous 19h

I guess my argument is theres lesbians who treat bi women like they’re impure for having sex with men but that doesn’t mean it’s all lesbians. Lesbians and bi women are still marginalized groups at the end of the day

Anonymous

#1 21h

no its actually crazy, it makes no sense. it just makes me happy ppl are now seeing what lesbians mean with 'some bisexual girls' instead of taking it as an attack on the whole community 😭

Anonymous

#2 20h

She ABSOLUTELY does not speak for us. I’m a bisexual proudly dating (and likely marrying) a butch lesbian and her take (specifically about “the real thing” when discussing mascs/studs/butches) is just gross.

Anonymous

#5 19h

Im confused as to what you’re trying to say here, could you explain your argument more? Because I understand that some lesbians need to unpack their internalized misogyny, but what does that have to do with the video?

Anonymous

#5 18h

bisexuals arent unpure for dating or liking men. there are just some who are inconsiderate towards how it feels to being the placeholder

Anonymous

OP 18h

Yeah and the assumption that a woman is a placeholder for bisexuals who secretly are only attracted to men stems from bi-misogyny and the idea that most women will settle down with a man “eventually”. I’m not saying your concerns are invalid but i am saying a lot of lesbians concern with bi women is a small step away from bi misogyny, same with paris being lesbophobic in the video. Idk be careful about sapphic women infighting ig you’re both soldiers in the same war against the cishetpatriarchy

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Anonymous

#5 18h

i say this as some bisexuals because i know its not a whole. but also every girl ive ever dated who is bisexual has treated me the way paris is describing, someone to use not someone to love. it makes me feel seen seeing people finally understand what i mean when i say im wary. i never said im against bi girls, or that theyre inpure. I said im a little more cautious because of past experiences, ones people use to call me biphobic like it's not a literal lived experience.

Anonymous

#3 18h

Its just. A lot of the concern about bi women is conflated to be every single one or even “most” bisexual women when thats not the case. I feel like it’s important to minimize infighting here and often times when you say general concerns with a group people feel invited to say thats everyone. Think I’m just tone policing tbh

Anonymous

#5 18h

I think she was just addressing how paris & queer women with this type of internalized misogyny and homophobia *do* put other queer women in this place holder, not that all bi women do that or that its inherent to bi women since that generalization is correctly called biphobic in the video

Anonymous

#3 18h

literally this, i used the word some in capitalization to make it clear i know its not everyone. its not a community as a whole, and i know that. but it's also hard to not be wary when bisexuals have treated me like this(and SO many of her comments is bi girls agreeing) im called biphobic for saying many bi girls have treated me like a placeholder, and that it makes me wary cuz i dont ever want to be put in that place again. yet now im being finally seen for what i mean because of paris