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I had a dream I got on a dating app but all the men I was seeing just weren’t doing it for me so I switched to a woman’s dating app and it was much better but then I felt really conflicted
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Anonymous 23h

Normally I don’t think dreams mean anything, but in this case they might

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Dreams actually can mean a lot most of the time. It’s usually a reflection of your mental state, memories, wants & needs, etc. It can be a process of your own brain understanding Itself. For example many people have dreams where their teeth fall out, that’s a direct reflection of stress and anxiety in their day to day lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Oh yeah, I meant like in a “spiritual” way, like when people think that their dreams are trying to tell them something. I’m aware that dreaming is a byproduct of the brain sorting information into long-term memory storage, and so prominent events from the day play out in that night’s dreams a lot of the time. Fun? fact: When soldiers undergo a traumatic event likely to cause ptsd, they are instructed to stay awake as long as possible, so as to degrade the memory and reduce the risk of ptsd.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Yeah I think it’s bc I’ve been thinking about getting on a dating app a lot lately but my worry is that idk what my sexuality is and I don’t want to make anyone feel like an experiment but at the same time aren’t we all learning and experimenting but also I just don’t think I’m ready 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Tbh you don’t have to worry about “making someone feel like an experiment” so long as you’re honest in your profile - a lot of women on Her have “bicurious” or “questioning” or “new to dating women” etc in their profiles. Also good luck!!

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