can you please explain what you mean by that? i'm not against what you're saying/judging anyone for who they want to be/love at all (as long as it’s not hurting anyone idc) but just want to understand what you mean by that!! i’m kind of confused about this whole topic in general and just want to learn more
Um I’m not exactly sure how to explain it so you could probably find a better answer but I’ll try. For example someone who identifies as a cis woman and is a masc lesbian may not feel that she/her pronouns fit them right since she/her pronouns relates to femininity. So they may try other pronouns such as he/him, they/them, it/its, or neo pronouns. And then said person will use whatever pronouns they feel fits them the best. And that’s my best try at explaining this