im stealth so everyone thinks im cis. recently a boy i used to be friends with got outed for being on grindr looking for trans girls to hook up with. ik it sounds weird but i really want to loose my virginity before heading to college next month. is this my chance? if so, how do i ask? i’m worried he’ll out me which atp i don’t care about but that would be such an awful way to be outed but i rly feel like this is my opportunity