Anonymous #1 1w

I wouldn't jump to labeling it wrong because it is typically what lesbians feel, but it's not up to us to decide how people identify. This is in a chain of posts where a lesbian did have sex with a guy and other people are harassing that OP and shaming them for not having a bad time.

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Anonymous #3 1w

No, I'm arguing against the way the starting OP was treated. She identifies as lesbian, but recently had an enjoyable sexual experience with a man. I was reaffirming that she is still valid under the identity of lesbian if that feels closest to her understanding of self. There was a good comment that asked if she would feel more comfortable without a label or under the bisexuality spectrum, and I agree.

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Anonymous c3brus 1w

My issue is that people were *telling* her that she *can’t* be a lesbian, and I’m SO not having that shit, I’m not going to stand idly by as the LGBTQ community tells queer people that they are being queer in the right or wrong way, that’s what the cishet society did to us and forced us to become the LGBTQ community. Don’t forget your own roots. Stonewall was not for a particular way to be gay.

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