
so it sounds like they had a wonderfully supportive social circle who encouraged them to further explore who they were, and instead of deciding that maybe they arent trans, but also not perfectly cis, they doubled down on their previous cis identity and made their detransition a grift?
I’m not trying to police anyone’s experience, I just don’t know any other trans person or have seen/heard of another trans person with the mindset of “oh youre a femboy/tomboy? Sounds like you’re trans! You should be trans!” Every trans person I’ve seen doesn’t give two shits if you’re a tomboy or a trans dude, so where are all these trans ppl trying to force label tomboys/femboys?????