there's certainly men who don't care but overall as a society a lot of people are still weird about body hair. like most other girls I know started shaving around age 10, I have heard lots of people make comments in public about women with visible arm pit hair, and ofc the most common one I've seen is people saying good for those women but personally I need a girl who shaves I live in a very progressive town too, so it's definitely still a widespread thing
as someone who was born female but identifies as agender and has pcos i have very dark mustache hair (i personally don’t like it even if i am feeling more masculine) and so i shave it once or so a week but the times i don’t i feel like its super noticeable and i’ve had people comment on it and its just like leave me tf alone i literally can’t control it 🙄