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Can somebody help a girl out? So last year I came out to my parents as Bisexual, I’m not, I’m lesbian- and I’ve been that for years. But my parents always say that they want grandchildren and that I will find a man soon enough, so I don’t know what to do
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Anonymous 10w

Give your gf a fake mustache and a hat, hope for the best

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Anonymous 10w

well it’s your life who cares what your parents want lmfao

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Anonymous 10w

If you're safe - like no risk of being kicked out or harmed, I'd tell them and be honest about being a lesbian. It'll take time before they understand, and there may be a period of disappointment, but having an open and honest conversation about it is the best thing you can do. And it can't hurt to remind them that adoption/IVF exists (if you do truly want children)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah, true true. Plus they already have Two grandchildren, and I have four older siblings who all want children

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

there you go. they already have what they want. live your life how you want to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

What, that’s so insulting to the grandchildren they already have? They would never hear the end of this from me! Oh you want grandchildren? Well Alice and Steve are right there, I’m sure they’d love to spend some time with you! Like Gtfo oh my uterus and focus on the present

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