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LGBTQIA+ 3d
I’ll never understand the “trans men can be lesbians” thing cuz like, isn’t that hella invalidating to trans guys?
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Anonymous 3d

he/him lesbian debate strikes again .. at the end of the day someone’s identity is their business and i don’t feel the need to question it! this kind of internal debate about who’s in and who’s out of certain labels only further divides queer folks—cuz at the end of the day bigots hate us all.

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Anonymous 3d

talking to queer people from the 80s would put yall in a coma

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Anonymous 3d

ohmygod i am begging y’all to talk to ONE he/him or trans man lesbian irl and you will realize literally no one cares

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Anonymous 3d

oh my god nobody fucking cares can we stop with this bullshit

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Anonymous 3d

can we shut the fuck up about how other people identify for once thanks

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Anonymous 3d

It just doesn’t matter

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Anonymous 3d

Who cares what others identify themselves as

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Anonymous 2d

Good thing you don’t need to understand it (even though that’s your own issue to work through). Get over it. You’re not the arbiter of identity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

yeah sure but the idea of a man, trans or not, being labeled as a lesbian, seems bigoted against lesbians by itself like yeah solidarity sure, but warping what lesbianism means seems shitty by including men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

You seem to be misconstruing who is arguing for their inclusion. By and large, it’s young trans men who are still trying to understand their sexual identity in relation to their gender identity. He/him lesbians and transmasc lesbians are usually self-identified, not something a third party is placing upon them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

not all he/him lesbians are trans men… many are nonbinary/transmasc/butches/cis women. equated he/him lesbians w trans men is wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

i thought the whole point of being queer was to have cool identities that dont make sense to ppl all these labels are bullshit yall care too much ab what box to put urselves in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Op are you a trans man? Are you a lesbian?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Why am I downvoted? From how they’ve written their comments, it feels like the OP is neither a lesbian or a trans man, and is just getting offended on our behalf

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