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It’s not just straight people sadly. I cannot count the number of times a bisexual or pansexual person will tell me that I choose to be a lesbian because “everyone’s sexuality is fluid” or “everyone is at least a little bi”.
genuinely how do some straight people believe that your sexuality is a choice😭 did you choose to be attracted to the opposite sex? could you choose to be attracted to the same sex? didn’t think so babe.
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Anonymous 4w

as a bi dude, i think this is a younger/recently out bisexual thing to do. i used to say it because i just couldn’t really fathom someone not being into both even if it was just a teeny tiny bit due to my own experience with sexuality. i dated a man briefly who would physically recoil when i talked about my experiences with women and that’s when i realized that yeah, some people really just are 100% gay or 100% straight, even if it doesn’t compute in my own brain lol.

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Anonymous 4w

i’ve had more bisexuals be weird about me being a lesbian than straight people 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Oh same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I don’t know, bc the last person who said it to me was a 30 year old bisexual woman who I teach her child and she was upset that I said no to being my student’s parents’ third

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ah! well that’s just creepy. i am sorry, i wish there were less of us like that lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Like I used to identify as bi before I came out as a lesbian, bc I tried to force myself to like men. Since I have come out as lesbian: when I have sex I no longer feel like self harming after (something I felt every time I was with a man), I can get turned on from kissing alone (this never happened when I was with men), I don’t feel empty going on dates and I don’t feel like I’m putting on a show anymore. And yet I still have people trying to tell me I’m bisexual a

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