Anonymous #1 6w

it's been so hard :/ i keep getting ghosted or tossed aside but creepy carl #3 will give me attention and it sucks

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Anonymous #1 6w

like it makes me feel like i should settle for garbage bc ive been treated like garbage by people ive tried to date/get close to 😢

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Anonymous OP 6w

I used to do this and it only made me feel horrible about myself

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Anonymous #2 6w

trust me it's making me feel horrible and ugly 🥲like am i so chopped to women that only gross men want me?? i think about about pulling a 1950s forced hetero harriet and just forcing myself to like men so i can get romantic attention again

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Anonymous #3 6w

i have carabiners, i have short hair, i wear bandanas, and still nothing. still creepy older dudes going after me

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Anonymous OP 6w

Do you live in an area with a lot of queer women?

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Anonymous #2 6w

the kicker is that i literally am near 2 women's colleges and still have horrible luck :/ i worry it's bc of my age (mid 20s) and unfortunately skin tone (really dark) that im having such a hard time in comparison to others

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Anonymous OP 6w

Are you on the apps bc I didn’t do well until I went on the apps and became comfortable making the first move

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Anonymous #2 6w

i had to get off the apps bc i was constantly getting ghosted/treated like shit and it was bumming me out

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Anonymous OP 6w

That happens, just keep trying

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Anonymous #2 6w

i can't :( i'm taking it as a sign that dating just isn't for me

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