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LGBTQIA+ 2w
I’m the breed of asexual where I will make sex jokes all day, act like I want it, and then the moment someone actually suggests doing it, start gagging like a cat with a hairball
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Anonymous 2w

am I asexual if I like don’t care about sex? idk my last relationship was really bad because I just did not want to have sex like it seemed like a chore to me😭 I would much rather just hang out and spend time with the person. But there’s also times where I do wanna have sex so I don’t know😭💀

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Anonymous 2w

Also!!! Some of the best sex or relationship advice I’ve ever gotten has come from my aro and/or ace friends, coaches don’t play lol

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Anonymous 2w

Not asexual but i rly relate to this post. Sex is just so stressful

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Anonymous 2w

THIS IS ACTUALLY TOO FUCKING REAL

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

There’s a whole range of in between on the ace spectrum, there’s tons of sub-identities that you can also look into. Or you may also just have a low libido, however you’d want to classify it really!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Genuine question as an asexual curious (??) person, what makes this any different for you than a friendship? Like how do you differentiate between a crush and a potential friend if you aren’t sexually attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Romantic attraction is whole thing, a romantic connection/desire is pretty distinct from a platonic one (at least to me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

well I definitely was sexually attracted to them lmao when I first got with them I wanted sex more than they did, but as time went on and we got more comfortable and started living together I just stopped wanting to have sex but he was also cheating lmao so it could’ve been that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

I can absolutely differentiate sexual and romantic attraction from friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

I envy you. I fear I cannot distinguish the two very well 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Have you looked into aromanticism maybe?

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