You don’t have to be part of something to speak on it, especially if you were once part of it. Also this is the LGBTQ+ community. Just because I’m not in the trans community rn doesn’t mean I’m not part of the community and can’t speak on behalf of my own experience but everyone just wants us to shut up. If y’all didn’t tell us to shut up so much you wouldn’t have this much backlash
Let me make this very very clear. No one has a problem with you being de-trans. That’s perfectly fine. Normal even (in the moral sense, statistically it’s quite rare but then again there are a lot of people). What people have a problem with is you openly describing yourself as transphobic. That sucks. Don’t be that.