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So ive recently come to accept that im a gay man. Since i repressed myself a lot i want to experiment with how i present myself and how i act. I dont want to reinforce stereotypes but what if being a stereotypical fem gay guy is what im most comfortable
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Anonymous 1d

Stereotyping is always in the person who’s making up and enforcing stereotypes, not the person who acts like what others perceive as a stereotype if that makes any sense. Express yourself however you want! If someone feels the need to put you in a box because of it that’s a shortcoming of theirs they need to reflect on.

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Anonymous 1d

nah i love looking like a 🚬 and not acting like a stereotypical straight man. you aren't weird for acting similar to your community or stereotypes of it.

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Anonymous 1d

you’re not reinforcing stereotypes by trying things out

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Anonymous 10h

Nothing wrong with it! We could use more fems in the world. Come join us.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah cause like im kinda fem underneath so i wanna you know sort of seperate from that persona of being a straight guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

even if you were, it doesn’t matter. what’s important is that you grow into who you really are

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah thats what I was thinking but i didnt want to like accidentally make us look worse or whatever. Its probably overblown but yeah thats just me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

Yay! Deep down ive always been somewhat fem lol

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