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identifying as genderfluid but knowing in my heart im male is really hard. im doing it for others, i know they want me to be happy but they feel more comfortable with me being GF i believe because theres still a chance im a girl to them. it really hurts.
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Anonymous 1w

your identity is for yourself not other ppl

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Anonymous 1w

rip off the bandaid. they’ll have to come to terms with it. You can help them adjust and patiently correct name and pronouns if they are willing to make the effort to change. It’s not worth being closeted - it hurts so much more

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