Anonymous #1 17h

can also be someone who’s fully aro & fully ace: asexual/aromantic means little to no sexual/romantic attraction, so some have “little” or hyper-conditional attraction that they still want to put a name to

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Anonymous #3 17h

I myself am aroace with hyper-conditional sexual attraction; I don’t put a name to it, but I understand why others might. it’s annoying to explain to people how I’m still aroace every time I call a character in a game hot 😭

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Anonymous #2 17h

oh yes ofc! i realize i phrased this v wrong and it can come off hateful, sorry. i myself am a lesbian but have been questioning where i land on the aro & ace spectrums since b4 i figured out girls were an option, but separately. im coming to terms w the fact that i might be aroace, but wanted to see if anyone was of the opinion that that would rid me of my lesbian label irdk how to explain my feelings/attraction hence why the og post was so vague :)

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Anonymous OP 17h

Not at all! You can absolutely be an aroace lesbian, there’s no conflict there at all.

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Anonymous #1 16h

i mean i’m still figuring it out but for the hypothetical of this post i meant someone fully aroace, attraction to girls in a secret third way, almost like theoretically but not in practice idk but if i don’t actually want to date or sleep w them can i still call myself a lesbian 😅 (obv i know that’s my business and choice ig but i wanted to see yalls thoughts mb)

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