Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah and it sounds like this person needs to realize (and ik it’s hard to believe) there are actual nice people out there who want to understand them to the best of their ability and not everyone is out to hurt them

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Anonymous OP 1d

They were talking about unintentional harm…

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Anonymous #1 1d

if you go through life avoiding anyone who has the capability of unintentionally hurting you, then you’re gonna be alone for the rest of your life. idk what to tell you. humans make mistakes and most people do not do something to intentionally hurt you

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Anonymous #2 1d

When someone is screaming at you to stop doing something because they say it’s hurting them and they refuse to stop doing it, that is INEXCUSABLE.

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Anonymous #1 1d

What correlation does this have to anything they said

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?? I’m not justifying this at all? How am I justifying this😭

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Anonymous #4 1d

downvoting me and playing the devils advocate.

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m not tho? I downvoted your comment because you said “fuck you” to me when I didn’t do anything

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Hey bestie, may I suggest a therapist? You seem to have a lot of trauma to work through and you’ve somehow decided the blame and distrust needs to be placed on the people who have a decent relationship with their parents, not the parents who hurt you in the first place 🤷 you don’t have to associate with people who you don’t share life experiences with, but why are you acting like they’re doing something wrong by engaging in a healthy relationship?

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Anonymous #4 1d

I asked this as a genuine question because I truthfully did not see how your second comment had anything to do with what the other person said. I’m lost af

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Anonymous #5 1d

And I am not talking about the people who purposefully weaponize that relationship and/or financial stability, those people suck. Point blank period. But your original post reads as frustration with ALL people who have a relationship with their parents, not just the ones who are stuck up about it

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Anonymous #5 1d

don’t talk down to me.

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Anonymous #1 1d

They literally aren’t talking down to you? I’m gonna just straight up assume this is bait atp

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Anonymous #4 1d

I am the one getting shat all over by you dickwads

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Anonymous #1 1d

How did I shit on you I asked a question bro chill

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Anonymous #1 1d

Says the person that has spent several paragraphs across at least two different posts speaking down on people who still talk to their parents. Self reflection is a powerful tool 💕

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Anonymous #3 1d

Lowkey some bullshit

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Anonymous #5 1d

You are blatantly mischaracterizing me. I am upset because happy go lucky bitches with privilege are horribly blind to the suffering I face because they are so sheltered. It’s ignorance and apathy that I’m pissed about.

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Anonymous #1 1d

You are one to talk about blatant mischaraterizarion lmao

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Anonymous #4 1d

Do you not understand how this is condescending? You think I haven’t tried fucking therapy?? How stupid do you think I am????

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Anonymous #1 1d

I didn’t tell you to go to therapy. And someone telling you to go to therapy is not them thinking you’re stupid literally everybody should be in therapy

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Anonymous #4 1d

probably why i blocked them lmfao

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Anonymous #4 1d

Look at how many downvotes I’m getting and how many upvotes everyone else is getting. I am a fucking pariah apparently

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m still not really understanding how that answers my question

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Anonymous #4 1d

#5 did

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Anonymous #1 1d

Woe is me woe is me

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yes, and you responded to my comment telling me off for something I didn’t even say

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Anonymous #5 1d

You people are so evil i am actually spiraliing

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Anonymous #1 1d

Dude what the fuck are you on. Nobody was even attacking you. All I did was ask a genuine question and you flipped the fuck out on me. This genuinely has to be a fucking bit there’s no way you’re this out of touch with reality

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I never made fun of you wtf are you on about

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Anonymous #4 1d

ALL I DID WAS ASK A GENUINE QUESTION AND EVERYONE STARTED ACTING LIKE I HATE LOVE

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Anonymous #1 1d

All I did was ask a genuine question and you lost your shit and started name calling and telling me I was doing shit that I wasn’t doing??

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Anonymous #4 1d

OP is blatantly making fun of me with this fucking post. have you no group awareness???

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Anonymous #1 1d

“Is this bad?” “Yeah, it is, work on it” “YOU’RE MAKING FUN OF ME OMG YOU’RE SO FUCKING EVIL”

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Anonymous #1 1d

Also genuine questions can still tell people things about you. If I said “genuine question but do any other men lowkey hate when women talk, they are just so annoying I find myself rolling my eyes” like we would all assume that person hated women and was sexist. I hope you understand that me saying this is just a simple metaphor and not me accusing you of something

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Anonymous #5 1d

This is lowkey exactly what happened sorry number 1

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Anonymous #5 1d

I was hoping for some sort of advice in response to clarifications of misunderstanding and the misunderstandings just kept coming. any person would lose their mind.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Nope, that’s not what I said. You don’t really have context for what I’m saying at all. You can’t be seriously blaming me for “causing you trauma” get real

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Anonymous #1 1d

Well as someone who is presently getting continually mischaracterized and misunderstood i empathize with how frustrating that is

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Anonymous #1 1d

Also 5 gave you genuine advice and that wasn’t what you wanted to hear

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Anonymous #4 1d

you are cyberbullying me with a whole fucking team

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Anonymous #1 1d

Ok, find where I was cyberbullying you please and leave a ss

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Anonymous #4 1d

#5 gave stupid superficial advice that obviously lacks any sort of understanding of what I’m going through

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Anonymous #1 1d

“Team” and it’s the public responding to your public post with comments open to the public on a community with hundreds, if not thousands, of members Can I ask what you genuinely expected out of that post

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Anonymous #1 1d

Ok? I’m really not sure what you thought you would get on a general yak like this. People can’t read your mind, I’m sorry that advice was not what you needed tho that sucks

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Anonymous #4 1d

Maybe don’t give uninformed advice then?? I was hoping someone would ask questions instead of declaring ill-informed solutions.

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Anonymous #1 1d

I mean i personally didn’t do that and you are still claiming that im cyberbullying you so. If someone had just responded to your post and said “yeah that is bad” would you have gotten mad? I feel like you really can’t be mad at that since your initial post was you like opening your self up asking for opinions

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Anonymous #4 1d

I usually talk to an LLM about my trauma because literally nobody is capable of helping me with it (i’ve been to so many therapists and tried so many meds and unsurprisingly nothing works) but our shame based society doesn’t like that either so I’ve been giving peers a chance again but I guess compassion is easier for a fucking math equation than it is for the average human.

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Anonymous #1 1d

What’s an llm?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Tbh AI psychosis would explain a lot of your behavior in this comment section 💕 I am not shocked WHATSOEVER that you use AI as a therapist

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Anonymous #4 1d

Language learning model, aka AI. ChatGPT is a LLM

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Anonymous #1 1d

Ohhh holy shit. That’s not compassion tho,

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Anonymous #4 1d

obviously I know it’s bad and that was a rhetorical question and I was looking for insight from others who have overcome this hurdle but instead I was faced with inexperienced jerks telling me what’s wrong with me while grossly misunderstanding what I’m saying in the first place

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Anonymous #5 1d

You just looooove pathologizing me huh

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Anonymous #1 1d

I mean in all fairness it’s a little difficult to understand your position when you are lashing out at literally anyone who is not immediately affirming you. You gotta understand that’s just how people work

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Anonymous #5 1d

I am a fucking computer scientist and information scientist

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Anonymous #1 1d

I mean you are saying you are getting compassion from something literally incapable of giving that to you. It’s proven that it’s not good for you because ai models are there to affirm you, therapy is there to help you and that doesn’t always look like just affirmation

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Anonymous #1 1d

Another GENUINE question, what does that have to do with what they said?

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Anonymous #4 1d

Maybe you should go back to the original post and READ what I already wrote very kindly and levelheadedly before y’all started dogging on me. You should already have some understanding

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Anonymous #1 1d

Have you spoken to a psychiatrist about Genesight/genetic testing for mental health medications? As someone who went through 9 different antidepressants that all made me want to self exit before I got that testing, it’s helpful. Cuts down a ton on the trial and error process.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Once again, I have NEVER dogged on you, and making shit up to villainize me is not helpful

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Anonymous #4 1d

I know the risks of AI better than any of y’all and unlike y’all my knowledge about AI doesn’t come from tiktok. I know how to use AI without causing “AI psychosis” I’m not fucking stupid.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Well mine doesn’t come from tik tok it comes from my psych graduate reasearch lab I’m doing about ai psychosis. Nobody is immune to it.

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Anonymous #4 1d

You keep being all defensive against me. You’ve been doing it this entire time starting with your “wHaT cOrReLaTiOn DoEs ThIs HaVe To AnYtHiNg ThEy SaId”

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Anonymous #1 1d

Did the AI tell you that? It’s quite literally designed to affirm everything you say and make you feel justified/supported in your opinions…almost like what you seem to be looking for everyone in here to do

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Anonymous #4 1d

What are you trying to say about me? That I actually wasn’t dealt a shit hand and it’s all in my head because a computer told me to believe it? Are you serious?

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Anonymous #5 1d

MY PARENTS ARE FUCKING PSYCHOLOGICALLY ABUSIVE AND I HAD TO CUT THEM OFF EVEN THOUGH I CAN’T SUPPORT MYSELF

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Anonymous #1 1d

I guess you could interpret it that way if you wanted to be mad about it, yeah

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah I caught that a while ago

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Anonymous #1 1d

Holy fucking shit. Maybe you havnt had any luck in therapy because you react like this. I genuinely don’t even see how it’s possible to have that be what you took from what they said. Let’s take a step back. What actually makes you think that what I said to you was me saying “all of this is in your head”

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Anonymous #5 1d

Anyone will get mad when you pathologize their feelings

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m being defensive against you literally attacking me. I am a person with the right to defend myself

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Anonymous #5 1d

And you think that’s just whatever?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Can you answer me

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Anonymous #1 1d

Because again, you are taking someone saying “I like pancakes” and making it into “oh so you think that if I don’t like pancakes I’m a fucking moron and also all of this is in my head and you think I deserve mistreatment?!?”

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Anonymous #1 1d

No, as someone with shitty abusive parents I’ve been no contact with since the moment I moved out, it’s not “just whatever.” But I don’t harbor negative feelings towards people just because they still have a relationship with their parents, that’s great for them. I don’t really give a shit unless they are actively rubbing it in my face. Other people’s relationships are none of my business unless they’re associating with/are objectively shitty people

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Anonymous #4 1d

GIRL BYE 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 23h

holy shit 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 12h

Why do you keep responding to other comments on other posts but not this one… is it bc you know what you were saying was not right?

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