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Not invalidating to me, seeing as I’m a lesbian. You know what is invalidating though? Constant posting about how you think my identity makes no sense and is wrong. No one here is saying ALL trans men are lesbians, just that some choose that label
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I’ll never understand the “trans men can be lesbians” thing cuz like, isn’t that hella invalidating to trans guys?
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Anonymous 3d

Anyways can’t wait for next years d*ke march where I’m surrounded by fellow lesbians who accept me as who I am and don’t try and force me into labels that I don’t relate to

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Anonymous 3d

but how can someone be a lesbian if they are a man. if a trans man is only attracted to women… he’s straight. why do we think it’s like a diseased thing to be a straight trans person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Because I’m a lesbian. I’m a trans man but also nonbinary. I’m a butch lesbian, and a man. Like bi gender kidna. I contain multitudes. I go through life as a butch lesbian, and seriously doubt a cis woman would date me. Anyways I’m t4t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

you’re allowed to just be a straight trans man y’know. like some portion of your existence qualifies yourself as a man, and I think we all know what being a man who likes women means

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I’m not straight, and it’s very strange for you to try and force me into that label.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I’m not forcing you, but like, you’re a man who’s saying you’re lesbian. that’s warping what being lesbian even means. How is that not invalidating to lesbians?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Because I’m a lesbian. I’m a butch lesbian. That’s a big ass part of who I am and you saying that I’m wrong is insanely invalidating and rude. I’m genderfluid/bigender. I’m a nonbinary person and a man. I’m also a lesbian.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I’m not invalidating anything about your gender or who you like, idgaf at all. Do whatever you want I just think it’s fucked up to tell lesbians that there are lesbians men now… which is kind of the whole point of lesbianism, no men…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

There’s no “point” to labels. I’m both a man and nonbinary, but you really really want to hammer in the man part. Sorry it’s fucked up that I’m a lesbian. I’ll never see you irl and I actually avoid close minded terfy lesbians in my real life :) so bye bye! Blocked!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Trans men lesbians have always existed and have historically been an important part of the lesbian community. Learn our history, and stop pretending you know what you’re talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

omg I wanna go to the d*ke march so bad 😭 covid safe spaces fuel my soul

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

It’s so lovely!!!

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