Anonymous #2 7w

it’s not like i think he’s a woman or something, he’s a man

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Anonymous #2 7w

“Best of both worlds” as in man and woman? Right? Because that’s the only way I’ve ever heard that be said.

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Anonymous #2 7w

“Best of both worlds” is a VERY chaser-y and fetishizing turn of phrase.

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Anonymous OP 7w

no, as in he’s a man but i can talk to him about “girl things”. he’s not a woman

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Anonymous #1 7w

i’m not fetishizing/sexualizing him

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Anonymous #2 7w

Ok. I’ve literally only heard that phrase said by people who think that trans people are the “best of both worlds” because they see us as not our gender but as a mix of man and woman

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Anonymous OP 7w

yeah, i don’t think that

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Anonymous #2 7w

theres no both worlds

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Anonymous #3 7w

you guys are crazy. used a bad term, sure. but don’t say i’m doing something i’m not

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Anonymous OP 7w

i’ve never heard it said that way because i’m not on the internet except here randomly. my fucking bad

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Anonymous #2 7w

i quite literally just said “therss no both worlds” what did i say you did in those 4 words?

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Anonymous #3 7w

people keep saying i’m fetishizing him, which i’m not. i appreciate everything about him

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Anonymous #2 7w

have you considered that maybe while you are not fetishizing that term about trans people is fetishizing and something that shouldn’t be said

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Anonymous #3 7w

i said i used a bad term

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Anonymous #2 7w

i admitted that?

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Anonymous #2 7w

You can appreciate someone while also fetishizing them. Those aren’t mutually exclusive. And the way your post talks about him IS fetishistic. Regardless of if you intentionally fetishize him or not, you have talked about him in a fetishized manner.

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Anonymous #2 7w

yes. so you could say something like “oh my bad i didn’t know that term was problematic ill avoid saying that”

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Anonymous #3 7w

where did i say it multiple times

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Anonymous #3 7w

where did i explicitly say it word for word

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Anonymous #2 7w

fym where have you said it? im saying you should just try to learn and grow. jfc you’re functionally illiterate

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Anonymous #2 7w

Can you not read??

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Anonymous OP 7w

i said it once lmao

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Anonymous #2 7w

And you continue to double down

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Anonymous #3 7w

i admitted i used a bad term lmao

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Anonymous #2 7w

Delete the original post then

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Anonymous OP 7w

report it then

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Anonymous #2 7w

why are you so desperate to be reported?

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Anonymous #2 7w

No thanks! Maybe you should tell your boyfriend how he’s the best of both worlds

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Anonymous #2 7w

so say you wont do it again? appologize?

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Anonymous #3 7w

why are you so desperate i delete the post?

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Anonymous #2 7w

never once said you should

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Anonymous #3 7w

“my fucking bad” that’s an apology

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Anonymous #2 7w

Because leaving up a post that looks like you’re fetishizing your boyfriend’s transness and think he’s not really a man would be a weird thing to leave up and be okay with??

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Anonymous #2 7w

no, that a fuck you im “sorry”

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Anonymous #3 7w

okay, sorry. there!

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Anonymous #2 7w

for?

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Anonymous #3 7w

saying it, are you dumb?

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Anonymous OP 7w

Like is this crazy?? If I posted something that made me sound transphobic and like I think my trans man boyfriend isn’t really a man I’d be really embarrassed and delete it??? Why would you want that to stay up??

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Anonymous #2 7w

saying what? what did you do that is wrong that you are apologizing for. own up to your mistake

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Anonymous OP 7w

i’m saying it anonymously silly

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Anonymous #2 7w

You should tell your boyfriend about your post!!

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Anonymous #2 7w

By the way; specifying that you’re bi before talking about your trans boyfriend is PEAK chaser.

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Anonymous #2 6w

Wishing a swift breakup for you

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