Anonymous #1 3w

I agree. I have a strong preference for being les4les. I think there is some nuance that you are missing bc i primarily became les4les out of safety reasons. I used to date bi women and would date another bi woman if I moved to a different area where the queer scene is different than where I currently live. A lot of the bi women in my area like to hide their boyfriends and go on dates with lesbians and surprise the lesbian with the boyfriend

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Anonymous #1 3w

This has resulted in myself and my friends experiencing corrective rape. None of us really date the bi women in our area anymore because it was so traumatic and we don’t want to go through that again. If I moved to a different area I would be open to dating bi women again, it’s just the culture in my area is so bad

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Anonymous OP 3w

Jesus that is terrible :( I’m so sorry hon. That’s definitely a stereotype I struggle with as someone who’s also in an open relationship. We’re completely transparent about our situation and intentions, but people like that absolutely ruin it for those who respect all their partners. I’m fortunate enough that I never encountered that when I was single and on apps, but I definitely get being used as a sexual fantasy. It’s terrible

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Anonymous #1 3w

It’s okay, yeah it’s just creepy. The stereotypes suck but the best way to fight them is to be open and transparent like you said. Honest is the best policy lol

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Anonymous OP 3w

Absolutely agree!

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Anonymous OP 3w

Im sorry that happened to you, its sad how common that is, ive been similarly lied to as well in the past but thankfully I found out before I was ever alone with them, sending hugs :( 🫂

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