LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | can’t tell if i’m somewhere on the aromantic spec but i just have no desire to get into a relationship like. at all. if i stumble across one sure that’s fun but i will never go out looking and idk if that’s normal??

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LGBTQIA+ 4w

can’t tell if i’m somewhere on the aromantic spec but i just have no desire to get into a relationship like. at all. if i stumble across one sure that’s fun but i will never go out looking and idk if that’s normal??

Anonymous 4w

and like i’m def not asexual, maybe demisexual bc i love sex but im also not going to pursue that, i have a long term fwb so they’ve got that covered lmao. idk i don’t think im aromantic i think im normal LMAO but i wanna hear others input bc i feel like i see people talking about how bad they want a relationship and how they are trying so hard to be in one and im like ???

Anonymous 4w

this is so real, i was in a year-long “relationship” but to me it was literally just a friendship and i feel like i didn’t actually have feelings for her and just saw her as a friend

Anonymous 4w

its giving ace spectrum to me

Anonymous

OP 4w

also if i get into a relationship i don’t want it to be monogamous. every monogamous relationship i’ve been in i’ve felt trapped and grew to resent the person(something i need to talk abt in therapy ik LMAO)

Anonymous

OP 4w

like this post(absolutely no hate to OP it’s just an example ily), i just don’t get this fr wdym you’re pining for a relationship. idk maybe it’s because i was weird as a kid and no one showed interest in me at all until i was 16 so my brain developed weird or smthn

Anonymous

#1 4w

and ever since then, ive literally never had feelings for anyone. ive found people attractive, but i can never see myself being with any of them and sometimes i feel “wrong” for that :/

Anonymous

#1 4w

no yes this !! i’ve had strong feelings for people but i feel like it’s never actually been romantic, they’re just strong platonic feelings. like idk my best friend and i have literally talked about building a life together but on Opposite sides of a duplex lmao. like they can do whatever have the wife and kids and im just chilling as the weird aunt/uncle with my cat

Anonymous

#1 4w

and i don’t think you should feel wrong for that at all!! i think as long as u communicate and don’t lead ppl on you’re literally just existing

Anonymous

OP 4w

my best friend and i have a marriage pact together!! we both solely have platonic feelings for each other, although they do have romantic feelings for people

Anonymous

#1 4w

and yea, i know i shouldn’t feel wrong. it’s just kind of an internalized sort of phobia type thing unfortunately because of how i grew up, thankfully my friends are amazing however and are helping me get rid of those feelings

Anonymous

OP 4w

sounds aro to me dawg