Anonymous #11 21h

I’m assuming Bisexual, or transgender. TBH it could be anyone sadly

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Anonymous #4 21h

I’m guessing black wasn’t the fetish

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Anonymous #4 21h

Technically it is possible to fetishized black people, but that’s not a sexuality 😭

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Anonymous #3 21h

True but I think we all know what they most likely meant

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Anonymous #14 21h

what is ebony

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Anonymous #15 21h

Black people. Like #4 said, they also get fetishized a ton

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Anonymous #14 21h

wtf!!! so sick i literally h8 men

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Anonymous #15 21h

Ebony is a type of tree but I don’t think they’re watching tree sex

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Anonymous #15 21h

derrogatory corn term for black

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Anonymous #13 20h

Its definitely lesbian

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Anonymous #20 20h

There’s a difference between a porn category existing about a demographic vs a demographic being so fetishized that it’s often seen as a porn category *before* it’s seen as someone’s actual lived experience. See lesbian for example, an identity that is so fetishized by people outside of it that we see lesbians not wanting to call themselves lesbians because it feels like a “dirty word”

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Anonymous #18 20h

Yea it didn’t help you specifically but I think a lot of people are glad to see themselves on tv. There have been a million straight people rivalries

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Anonymous #22 20h

but when it’s all you’re viewed for it’s terrible. I don’t care about porn existing I’m tired of being sexualized and fetishized simply because I am queer. you think people see straight people the way they do lesbians, gays, bisexuals, or any sexuality?

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Anonymous #22 20h

I bet you think fetishization is appreciation too huh bud

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Anonymous OP 20h

Honestly im queer too and I have no idea anymore. I’m not contributing to this issue, I want whatever is best for the collective and I’d rather let experts like you guys figure it out. I’ll worry about the issues you’re not thinking about and dw I’m not gonna bring them up this isn’t oppression Olympics, it’s divide and conquer. Happy pride. Keep fighting the good fight my dear. I honestly am not experienced in this topic but there are fights I can support for the good of all things love & joy

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Anonymous #19 20h

Not when it’s happening to me, I wanna be loved for who I am inside I imagine others may be similar

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Anonymous #22 20h

This is genuinely sub human iq levels, because how do you translate thinking being a porn category to being loved for you are inside?

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Anonymous #24 19h

Trans lesbians are genuinely some of the most fetishized groups of people 😭

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Anonymous #19 19h

you misunderstood…but I think a few more minutes and you’ll get it. What I said was a complete thought and I didn’t address porn 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #22 19h

I need you to reread the original post and think really, really hard about how responding to a post about this persons identity is a porn category, and how you responding implies you are indeed addressing porn.

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Anonymous #25 19h

Your MOM?? I’m so sorry twin 🥀

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Anonymous #14 19h

I’m from a small town so them making inappropriate jokes checks out but they can at least be normal about my brother and his gf sometimes 😭

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Anonymous #22 19h

People are downvoting but you’re right, I think the straight fanbase of heated rivalry over shined the positive impact that the show has had

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Anonymous #25 18h

That doesn’t excuse it though, you deserve respect and I hope your mom realizes that soon

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Anonymous #14 18h

Not the point at all but I respect Rhode Islanders for being the only state to choose “MILF”

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Anonymous #14 18h

this made me fucking nauseous

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Anonymous #16 18h

You can say porn, this isn’t tiktok

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Anonymous #22 18h

Except it’s not even gay rep it’s just soft core gay porn for straight audiences

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Anonymous #14 18h

I appreciate it!

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Anonymous #30 17h

Straight people that watched it told me the sex was the intial shocking part but that it was much more than that, personally I haven’t seen it, the gay sex was too much for me

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Anonymous #22 17h

Like not bc it’s gay but I don’t like seeing people naked like that, the whole ass out, the stroking and stuff like pause I’m in the living room

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Anonymous #19 17h

You misunderstood me and called me low Iq. You don’t want to talk you want to talk down. I’m addressing just your comment, obviously, but you got smth else going on. Cool do it alone

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Anonymous #22 17h

“I bet you think blah blah” my response was “no I don’t” and I proceeded to cite the most well known tenet of empathy, considering how others may experience feelings that I experience. You’re way too combative about your opinions here. Like genuinely to the level of being rude and trying to preach to me? ironic

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Anonymous #14 15h

oh jeez it’s so much worse than i realized 😭

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Anonymous #32 11h

Yeah you’re right. Surely not fascism or the climate crisis or genocide. That’d be crazy

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Anonymous #32 11h

as if it hasn’t already started anyway

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Anonymous #32 10h

Socrates, Plato, Aristotle and many of the founders of “western society” routinely had same sex relations, cross dressing and drag has been entertainment for centuries. A little anal ain’t never hurt anyone can we like be mad about the debt or taxes or the government telling you that you can’t do something idk

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Anonymous #31 10h

I agree with you but weren’t the Ancient Greeks diddling kids? I would pick a different example 😭

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Anonymous #22 9h

Yeah I would definitely say that the sex in the first episode was kind of like a hook to shock people and it definitely worked out that way. Though the sex continues to be graphic throughout the series, I find it to be very thought provoking and important for the community. I believe that the show has brought on real change and it feels good to see people in your community getting the same kind of media that straight couples may get as well. It is a real show with real moments, but it isn’t -

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Anonymous #22 9h

Doomed like most queer love stories, and I love that bc why does someone always have to die or get groomed or whatever else

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