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I think I might be transgender (mtf). blue state (kinda it’s Michigan), I’m 21 I’m worried that I’m too late to transition and I can’t reasonably pass / i think having a vagina would be important to me. What are my chances? If that makes any sense
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Anonymous 3d

I’m sorry for putting this crudely or if I asked this question in an inappropriate way but any advice is appreciated

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Anonymous 3d

in michigan it’s super easy to access hrt thru planned parenthood, they’re a great place to start. it’s never too late to start and pass, and 21 is still relatively young (even though ik it may not seem like it). if you have a queer community center near you they often have resources to connect you with other trans people and get information on lgbtq friendly providers and legal processes.

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Anonymous 3d

Congrats! And don’t worry, It’s never too late! If you’re looking to medically transition 21 is a perfectly fine age to do so. You’ll need to contact a doctor to discuss your options. Also speaking to a therapist / trained counselor would be a good idea for dealing with any concerns and difficulties with being trans.

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Anonymous 3d

I’m so sorry I misread MTF as FTM that’s totally on me I completely apologize

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Hundred percent, I’ve felt this for a bit only really started considering it as an option this weekend, definitely gonna talk to my therapist about it it before I get too far in make sure it’s right😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

My initial message of “it’s never too late and there’s always a chance” still stands

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Anonymous 2d

statistically u’d be starting hrt about 6 years before the average mtf transitioned starts :) also michigan might not be perfect but u shouldnt let perfection be the enemy of good. & u WILL pass if u start at 21, itll just take some time :)

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Anonymous 2d

That’s earlier than many of us start to transition. It’s never too late. Ever.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

I don’t pass very well, but the happiness I have in life now is worth everything. Here’s a before.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

And now me with an actual will to live because I started loving me and not what others thought of me.

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Anonymous 2d

i’m 6’2 and turning 22 next month and i’m just getting started. are we cooked? who knows. the only way to find out is to try❤️

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