As a butch woman, nothing annoys me more than people who refuse to use she/her for me even after I've said I use she/her and corrected them several times. Like that's still misgendering me, and it's obvious when someone doesn't really see me as a woman
it’s fucking crazy. i feel you so bad as a genderqueer butch woman. yes i’m trans, yes my pronouns are exclusively she/her. it’s really not that fucking hard.
67
Anonymous2d
Same experience with me as a feminine man wanting he him still!
28
Anonymous2d
PREACH
23
Anonymous2d
It’s really difficult. As someone who’s not really *out* yet, but steadily trying to figure myself out, it’s super confusing and difficult to figure out what I want when no one respects it or I don’t hear it.
7
Anonymous2d
Even if people have a hard time understanding at first they should at least try.. I’m sorry you’ve been experiencing that, it’s not hard to just call people what they want to be called :(
6
Anonymous#22d
these people think gender nonconformity = they/them is somehow a woke take and it pisses me off so bad
35
Anonymous#22d
And I will ALWAYS respect someone's pronouns, so I just don't get why mine are so difficult for some people? I could be wearing a she/her pin and someone will still try 😭
43
Anonymous#41d
Im in the same boat as you, every time i dress a little fem people assume im a poorly passing trans woman and go out of their way to she/her me which i get the sentiment but…. I have facial hair…