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reached out to the “you can always call me!” person. told them i’m really not doing well mentally and just need to get out of my house to sit and talk with someone. “well, that sucks, but shouldn’t you be focusing on school?” how insightful, thank you.
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Anonymous 12w

i hate how many people do this. if youre gonna offer to be a support for someone, actually support them instead of giving them unhelpful advice or toxic positivity! so sorry this happened to you, OP :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

fr, there’s two horrible answers to someone reaching out to you needing help. 1) bring up something that’s stressful, like school, or 2) tell them they’re fine/it’s gonna be ok. it’s okay if you don’t know how to help someone who needs it, but for the love of god stop bringing up how “you can always come/talk to me!” if you can’t actually do it. i feel like i was pretty specific about what i needed too, which is what made this interaction so weird. i don’t feel i’m making this difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

RIGHT!!!!!!

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