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Bi girl here dating a cishet man who I love dearly but he’s opposed to letting our future child transition early if they’re trans. It’s so upsetting to me given the fact that I consider myself a trans ally. What do I do??
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Anonymous 15w

break up??

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Anonymous 15w

Assuming you’ve came out to him, it’s weird that he’s picking and choosing which queer people he’s ‘not opposed to’. You’re likely not going to change his mind, but if you can that’d be amazing! Otherwise break up, if he can’t accept one he doesn’t truly accept all.

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Anonymous 15w

Talk it out? See why he feels that way and ask that he see your side too?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

This is great advice thank you!

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