there are queer people of ALL identities with fantasies/fetishes for “turning” cishet people (gay men, lesbians - masc + femme -, bisexuals, trans people, whatever. i’ve even seen bisexual women try to push the boundaries of cishet men.) however, generalizing all queer people as sexual predators, or specifically singling out gay men, masc lesbians, and trans people is engaging in queerphobic tropes.
no that’s literally it. many people just can’t recognize it and then don’t unpack/unlearn homophobia and then unironically reproduce it within queer spaces, esp because so many people are learning about and developing their identity outside of the community where that would be called out, they’re just fumbling through it online.
Yeah it always throws me for a loop when I see it because I (like most queer women) have experienced being fetishized buy cis straight guys, so I was confused about this 'epidemic' of other lesbians going for straight women especially because I was hearing this coming from other queer women,