LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | Chat, how do I know who I like? I’ve always struggled with knowing whether I like someone as a friend or if I have a romantic crush. What if I’m ace? Because once I’m done with the excitement of a relationship, I don’t want kisses or anything else…

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Chat, how do I know who I like? I’ve always struggled with knowing whether I like someone as a friend or if I have a romantic crush. What if I’m ace? Because once I’m done with the excitement of a relationship, I don’t want kisses or anything else…

Anonymous 3d

this sounds weird but uhh i can usually feel that specific typa attraction in my crotch. our bodies are wired with feelings all over that can often be more precise than our brains bcuz we add so much extra unimportant fluff with our thoughts. always check in with ur body

Anonymous 3d

if you aren't thinking about smooching them a little, it's probably not romantic

Anonymous

#2 3d

But is that normal to happen in every relationship I’ve had? Am I just falling out of love or is there something different or wrong with me? I just want to get the spark back.

Anonymous

OP 3d

do you actually want to kiss them at the start or do you do it because you associate that with the start of a relationship and the other person wants to kiss you?

Anonymous

#2 3d

That is what I’m not sure of… I think I do— when I remember the begining I remember loving being romantic and kissing. This is also my first sapphic relationship and it’s making me anxious that maybe I was wrong. Idk. I’m over complicating everything

Anonymous

#1 3d

In the beginning I feel this way, but towards the end of the relationship I don’t. Maybe I just fall out of it easily… idk.

Anonymous

OP 3d

worth remembering that straight cis people don't really have to think about this stuff, so if you're wondering/questioning, you're probably not wrong. just a matter of figuring out what labels/IDs make you feel better and help you understand yourself