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So… how am I supposed to look feminine when I’m literally trans still look so much like a straight man
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Anonymous 1w

i’m a trans guy, but my advice is you don’t have to everything at once, just start slow and make little changes that make you feel better! maybe adding some jewelry, or trying out simple makeup, or figuring out how to style your hair, or finding clothes you like, stuff like that! try thrifting if you’re worried about buying a new wardrobe, it’s cheap and fun. makeup can do wonders if you get good at it, but it’s hard to learn, so be patient if that’s something you wanna do ! good luck girl!!

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Anonymous 1w

Do whatever you consider feminine

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Anonymous 1w

Sometimes femininity for me is just about mindset and ‘posture?’ Make a playlist that makes you feel more feminine, keep a journal, engage in self care and creative acts, spend time with nature, and walk with optimism. Remember- the whole point is that ‘womanhood’ isn’t any one look, and everything will follow how you feel.

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Anonymous 1w

Thrifting helps a ton. I ended up getting a ton of old stuff from thrift stores and DIYing some to make it more me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ik there’s just so much to pick from and Pinterest is stressing me out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You’ll find your personal style. Try things out

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Thank you!!!! Thinking and thrifting some some baggy pants and mom jeans for now since I’m very short

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Lowkey wanna dye my hair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yessss good ideas!! have fun with it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Thank you! If you ever feel down to help me decide plz dm me!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Idk if this is my place to say but I just wanted to say that I’m a cis woman and Pinterest and all the fashion options and makeup and nails and more and more and more stresses me out too. I myself can’t even achieve all that, it’s too much (plus $$)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Literally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

dye and thrifting are both great ideas! i have the most cishet man wardrobe because i am a walking blast furnace but i will happily give my two cents on something (for however much thats worth)

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