i mean as a trans guy a good chunk of us have gone years living as women, so I do believe we have a much better voice in discussions than cis guys. And even if you are referring to what #2 said, not all trans men can just immediately stop accessing women’s spaces. entering men’s spaces when you aren’t fully passing and/or transitioned can be scary and even unsafe
as a cis woman i VERY much disagree. we cant expect trans men to immediately stop existing in afab spaces as soon as they transition- male spaces can be scary and can be even more terrifying when you arent fundamentally built the same as someone who is amab. i guess this really depends on what you consider womens spaces, because male bathrooms are terrifying if you dont fully pass. changing rooms are also terrifying if you dont fully pass or havent had full medical transitions.