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Puter, how do I figure out if I’m nonbinary, agender, or just gender apathetic? Quickest route, no freeways.
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Anonymous 21h

People are clowning on you but I lowkey have had this same question Do you think your gender is some secret third thing, you specifically don’t have one, or you don’t care? That’s like the crux of it

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Anonymous 1d

Why does it matter to you?

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Anonymous 12h

Love the reference, Lego Batman is literally peak

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Anonymous 8h

im gender apathetic, and i found out by hopping genders. before i stopped in the mirror and thought like: "does this really matter that much to me? no. do i really have a preference? no. do i feel genderless? no." for me i just fluctuate sometimes with how i feel: feminine or masc. but like idc how ppl view me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

And just to be clear im not yucking your yums im asking to clarify your question not to make a judgement ab your consideration

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Lowk it doesn’t matter that much to me, I just think it’s nice to have a label for the sake of communication. I hate doing the “uhhhh uhhh I don’t really know”, or over explaining when asked. (Which is a totally valid response, I just find myself wanting a quicker answer lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

No literally I asked one question and woke up to hate And honestly I don’t really know?? Like how do I tell that? I used to think I just didn’t care at all, but the more I think about it, the more I kind of want to be perceived as androgynous, so maybe I do care?? Ultimately, not the biggest deal to me, I was just tired and curious lol

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